Overthinking


Overthinking leads to sadness, ye to suna hi hoga aapne,
Aisa hi hamara mind-dimag hai,Agar hum Apne school 🏫 k baare me sochte hai, to hume yaad aate hai apne friends, us, jis ladki ya ladke ko hum pasand krte hai vo yaad aata hai, fir yaad aate hai kuch achche dost,kuch normal dost to kuch bure dost, or class ki/ka monitor ,jo kisi ka b naam black board pe.likh deti/deta tha, fir teacher aake use daat sunata tha,punish krta tha,fir yaad aajate hai vo baaki class k students-jinse hamari bahut ladayi hoti thi,, or dusri class ki ladkiya/lakde..jo hume pasand thi/the,aise hi hume apne classroom ki deeware , colour,desks , board,sb yaad aa jata hai-ab.kitna achcha lagra hai yaad krke.

.ab isi ko hum-overthinking se jod sakte hai..

For ex- main khud ki Overthinking batata, main roz travel krta hu , fir bhi jab hum bina divider wali road se jare hote hai mujhe har baar yei lagta hai k aaj to mera accident pakka hoga.kyuki mnn me darr baitha hua hai, ek baar ye baat dimag me aa gayi to har saamne se aati gaadi ko dekh k lagta h..isi se accident hoga, jbki hota kuch ni h- ye sab Overthinking hai.

Aaj tak ki jo sabse badi neeti yei hai success ko pane k liye k jo bhi tumhe lagta hai k is cheej ko krne se main apne lakshya ki taraf ek kadam aage badh jaunga to kardo usi din ,usi time vo kaam shuru kardo- nahi to hamara dimag us soch k negative result dikhana shuru kar deta hai,jisse hum koi b kadam uthane se ruk jate hai.

Yei ek sabse badi vajah hai, jo log sirf sochte rehte hai or kuch karte ni yei log-un logo k mnn me shak paida kar dete k jo kuch karna chahte hai-

or inka sabse famous dialogue pata h kya hota hai-k agar muje moka mila hota na to main b kuch bada kar deta,, aise hi log kismat ko koste hai,,or yei bolte hai uski kismat achchi thi isliye usne kar liya, ya uska background achcha hai,(💯 bakwaas karte hai) or dusro ko b yei bolte hai- k tumse na ho payega,,,

Kuldeep sagar-Ye ek mere senior the( aaj b hai😂) ,hum dono saath me kisi party me gaye hue the, to vaha pe sab achche se kapde pehne hue the,sabke baal k style gajab wale the, maine unse ye kaha sab, kitne achche lagre hai , or muje khud ko main achcha ni lagra( kyuki maine formal dress pehni hui thi, or baal bikhre hue the), unhone mujhe koi bhasan ya updesh nahi diye , unhone mera hai style sahi karne ki kosis kari or upar ki taraf khade karne ki kosis kari(or mere baal khade b ho gaye, kyuki bahut rookhe the), unhone mera hair style achcha karne ki kosis kari, maine vapas se baalo ko neeche ki taraf bitha liya- tb unhone kaha – aapne khud apne aap ko seemao me baandh rakha hai-ye unki baat aaj tak yaad hai-kyuki maine ye sochke baalo ko vaise hi kar liya kyuki usse pehle maine kabhi baal khade ni kiye the- or dar sa lagra tha k kaise lagenge bs..or meri hi soch ne meri seemao ko banaya tha,or ye kyu hua ,kyuki main bahut faltu sochta tha,k ye kya sochega ,vo kya sochega-sb Overthinking thi,jisse mujhe apne aap ko style/fashion(jo bhi hai,mujhe sahi word nahi mila😂) na karne k liye majboor kiya tha..

Agar hum 4 5 kekde(🦀) ek botal k under band karde- or uska dhakkan khol de to, aap dekhenge ki , agar usme se koi ek kekda( 🦀) bahar nikalne ki kosis krega to baaki uski taang pakad k kheech lenge, na khud niklenge na dusre ko niklane denge- same aisa hi hai hamara samaaj bhi hai. So agar kuch bada karna hai to behre ho jao- dusro ki baat mt suno, jo aapko energy deta hai vo karo..

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