AUKAT- CHETAN BHAGAT


A MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH BY CHETAN BHAGAT

CHETAN BHAGAT
CHETAN BHAGAT

 

INDIA ME EK WORD HAI AUKAT. IS WORD KO BOLNE KA ASLI MAZA HINDI ME HI AATA HAI, ENGLISH ME UTNA NAI AATA (for ex- what is your status,, maza  ni aaya,,, ab hindi me bolke dekhte hai – teri aukat kya hai – feeling aayi na-k humne kuch wazandar baat kahi hai)

INDIA ME PAIDA HOTE HI HME PATA CHAL JATA HAI KI HAMARI AUKAT KYA HAI-K MAIN IS GHR ME PAIDA HUA HU-MERE MAA BAAP KI ITNI INCOME HAI, MAIN IS SHEHER ME REHTA HU – MAIN ITNA HI KAR SAKTA HU–

HAR KOI CHAHTA HAI LOG USKO SUCCESSFUL MAANE-BS THODI SI APNI AUKAT PAAR KARO- LOG AAPKO SUCCESSFUL MAANENGE

MAIN AAPKO APNI STORY BATATA HU- MERI AUKAT YE THI MAIN EK MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY SE BELONG KARTA THA-MAIN 15-16 SAAL KA THA , MERE 10TH ME 76% MARKS AAYE THE, NORMAL MARKS  THE, SABKO PATA HAI KYA REACTION HOTA HAI INDIAN PARENTS KA ITNE MARKS PE, MERE GHAR PE MATAM CHAYA HUA THA, MAMA G AAYE HUE THE,SAARI FAMILY DINING TABLE K PASS BAITHI THI OR SAB K MUH LATKE HUE, FIR THODI DER BAAD MAMA G BOLE — FIKAR MAT KIJIYE KUCH NA KUCH TO KAR LEGA  .YE BOLKE UNKE FACE KA EXPRESSION AISA THA JAISE PATA NI KITNI BADI BAAT KEHDI HO, OR YE BAAT SUNKE MUJHE LAGA KI MAIN B KUCH KR SAKTA HU YANI KI MERI AUKAT MERE DIMAG ME GHOOM RAHI HAI, SBKO GUD NT BOLKE MAIN APNE ROOM ME CHALA GYA OR SOCHNE LAGA-YAAR MAIN KARUNGA KYA US TIME PE NA TELEPHONE BOOTH HOTE THE,,

TELEPHONE BOOTH
TELEPHONE BOOTH

TELEPHONE BOOTH PE RAAT KO CALL RATE SASTE HOTE THE ,, LINE LAGTI THI BAAT KRNE K LIYE,,MAINE SOCHA MAIN B YEI KHOLUNGA–OR EK DIN MAIN 4 TELEPHONE BOOTH CHALAUNGA, YE MAINE APNI AUKAT K HISAB SE SAPNA DEKH LIYA K MAIN YE KARUNGA,,

YEI BAAT JAKE MAINE KAL (JAB SAB KHANA KHA RAHE THE, MAMA G B VAHI THE) JAKE SABKE SAAMNE BOL DIYA K  MERA YE PLAN HAI,, BAHUT LOG AAYENGE ,, OR BAHUT PAISE KAMAUNGA- MAMA G BOLE THIK LAGRA HAI ,,,ITNA TO KAR HI LEGA,, FIR ITNA KEHKNE K BAAD MERE DIMAG ME AAYA MAIN 15 SAAL KA HU OR MERI LIFE KA FAISLA HO GYA, K HA BOOTH KHOLO JEEVAN BITAO,,ITNA B GALAT NI KIYA 76%MARKS LAAKE,,KUCH TO AISA KARNA PADEGA JISSE LOG BOLE K YE OR BHI KUCH KAR SAKTA HAI TELEPHONE BOOTH KHOLNE K ALAVA,– FIR MAINE SOCHA KI INDIA KA SABSE HARD COLLEGE KONSA HAI MTLB JISME ADMISSION LENA SABSE MUSHKIL HAI,,PATA CHALA IIT HAI,,USKE LIYE KAM SE KAM 2 SAAL KI MEHNAT LAGEGI–LEKIN MAINE THAAN LIYA THA,AB TO KARKE DIKHAUNGA — TO MAINE US HISAB SE APNI AUKAT KO PAAR KARNE KI TAIYAARI KI- JAB MAINE ADMISSION LE LIYE APNI MEHNAT SE– FIR MAMA G AAYE GHR BOLE– VESE KUCH NA KUCH TO THA IS LADKE ME,,MUJHE HAMESHA SE LAGTA THA KUCH HAI ISME-PEHLE NI LAGA MAMA G KO- IS TARAH SE MAINE APNI AUKAT PAAR KARI–

OR JAB EK BAAR MAINE YE KIYA TO FIR KHUD SE HI SIKHNE KI KOSIS KARI K MAINE YE KAISE KIYA- MAIN KOI GENIUS NAI THA-ISI TARIKE SE MAINE IIM ME MAINE ADMISSION LIYE –ISI TARIKE SE MAINE PEHLI BOOK LIKHI- ISI TARIKE SE MAINE APNI PEHLI MOVIE BANAYI OR USSE MAINE EK PATTERN BANAYA K SUCCESS KAISE MITI HA,,,,  SPECIALLY UN LOGO KO JO K BORN GENIUS NAI H-   OR AAJ AAP LOG MUJHE KYU SUN RAHE HO KYUKI

3 IDIOTS ,KAI PO CHE, HALF GIRLFRIEND YE SAB MERI VO  BOOKS AND MOVIE HAI JO SBSE JYADA FAMOUS HAI–ISLIYE AAPKO LAGTA HAI K HA YE INSAAN B KUCH HAI-

EK BAHUT BADA CONCEPT HAI JO I WISH K KAASH MUJHE B KOI BATA DETA

SHORT EFFORT GOALS VS LONG EFFORT GOALS

YE SCHOOL YA COLLEGES ME NAHI SIKHATE–AGAR AAPKO BOLU K APNA KAMRA SAAF KRLO KITNI DER LAGEGI 1 YA 2 GHANTE–AGAR JYADA GANDA HUA TO 3 GHANTE –YANI KI GOAL ACHIEVE  HO GAYA– JYADATAR LOG KYA BOLTE HAI SUCCESS HAI GOAL ACHIEVE KARNA TO GOAL ACHIEVE HO GAYA KAMRA SAAF HO GAYA NA– PAR AAP USE SUCCESSFUL TO NI MANTE–KABHI SUNA HAI AAPNE KI BHAI YE BAHUT SUCCESS FUL AADMI HAI KAL 3 KG TOMATO KHARID KE LAYA HAI,, NAI NA JABKI KAAM VO BHI HAI ,,MEHNAT USME BHI LAGTI H,, ROZ KA KAAM HAI,, HUM LOG USE SUCCESS NAI ISLIYE NAHI MANTE KYUKI VO CHOTIU MEHNATG K KAAM H,, MTLB KUCH GHANTO K,, YE KUCH GHANTO K KAAM KRNE KI HUME BAHUT AADAT HAI- AGAR HAMARA YE KAAM KARNE KA MNN NA HO,,TO KYA KARTE HAI ,, HUM KYA SOCHTE HAI`– CHAL KHATAM KAR NA FIR TV DEKHENGE– KHATAM KR N CHLL,,JAO SABZI LE AAO FIR KHATAM KARO KAAM ,, AAPKA MOTIVATION NAHI BHI H FIR BHI AAP APNE AAP KO DHAKKA MAR MOTIVATION DETE HO,, ISE DHAKKAR MAAR  MOTIVATION TERM SE MAIN  DEFINE KARTA HU, YE HUMAN NATURE HAI- OR AISI HI HUM DAILY LIFE CHALATE HAI–

PROBLEM YE HAI JAB AAPKO AUKAT PAAR KARNI HOTI H, TO AAPKO KOI AISA KAAM KARNA HOTA HAI JISME LAMBI —KAI MAHINO YA SAALO KI MEHNAT HOTI HAI– TABI TO LOG KEHTE HAI– ISNE BADA KAAM KIYA HAI–KUCH BADA KIYA HAI– VO DHAKKA MAAR SE AAP APNE AAP KO MITIVATE NI KAR SAKTE– OR YE SABSI BADI GADBAD APPROX SABHI KARTE HAI–FOR EX, MUJHE IIT ME ADMISSION LENA HAI,,1 MAHINE ME  PREPARATION KAR LUNGA — HO SAKTA HAI — NAI HO SAKTA,,HUM KLYA KARTE HAI– BAHUT HO GYA YAAR AB– KAL SE MAIN ROJ 15 GHANTE PADHUNGA IIT K LIYE–NEXT DAY 15 GHANTE PADHE–USSE NEXT 10 GHANTE–USSE NEXT–5 GHANTE–NEXT DAY– MUJHE JANA HI NAI H– YE KYA BAKWAAS HAI YAAR,,KYA IIT KARNA KI SBKUCH HAI KYA–ISKE BINA KUCH HOTA NI KYA LIFE ME– DEKHO KYA HORA HAI–

AAPKA DIMAG QUIT KAR RAHA HAI

DIMAG KEHRA HAI BHAAG LE BETE — BAHUT MUSHKIL HAI– KITNA TRY KIYA– BHAAG LE–HAR CHEEJ ME HOTA HAI– LIKE DIETING — ABSE SALAD KHAYENGE–BOILED FOOD KHAYENGE–EK DO DIN CHALTA HAI– FIR PARENTS YA DOST YA RELATIVES KUCH FAST FOOD YA MITHA KHA RAHE HAI–BOLTE HAI TASTE KARLE BSS– KUCH NI HORA– BSS EK BAAR TASTE KARLLE– FIR HUM SOCHTE HAI– AAJ KI DIETING CHOOT HI GAYI HAI TO AB MAIN KHA HI LETA HU–ISKI EQUAL BAAT KYA HAI– AAP SADAK PE JARE HO– KICHAD ME GIR GAYE –FIR SOCHA GIR HI GAYE HAI TO KICHAD ME NAHA B LETE HAI– AB TO GIR GAYA NA– AB TO PADHAI CHOOT GAYI–AB TO JANA HI NAHI HAI– GAME OVER– THAT IS THE GADBAD–

JAB KOI KAAM HAMARE LIYE IMPOSSIBLE HOTA HAI– VO BASICALLY AUKAT PAAR KARNE WALA KAAM HOTA HAI–VO LAMBI MEHNAT KA KAAM H–YE KEHNA CHOR DO K YE KAAM IMPOSSIBLE HAI–YE BOLO IS KAAM ME 5 SAAL KI MEHNAT HAI– WORDS SE HAMARA MINDSET CHANGE HO JATA HAI– AGAR AAP IMPOSSIBLE BOLOGE TO AAP KABHI NI KAR PAOGE– 5 SAAL KI MEHNAT KI JA SAKTI HAI–

AB SABSE IMPORTANT BAAT AUKAT PAAR KAISE KARNI HAI-    I USE A SIX STEP PROCESS-

  1. SET A CLEAR GOAL

AGAR MAIN AAPKO BOLU K MOUNT EVERST CHADNA HAI — TO KYA YE GOAL HAI-YA MUJHE SUBAH JALDI UTHNA HAI ETC ETC,– KYA YE GOAL HAI– BILKUL NAHI– PATA HAI KYU- KAB CHADNA HAI EVERST 25 SAAL BAAD YA KAB UHOGE JALDI (JB UTHNE KI KOSIS KARTE HAI– SOCHTE HAI.. AAJ SO JATA HU,, KAL SE PAKKA)– JAB TAK AAP USKI SPECIFIC DETAILS NAHI DALOGE– LIKE MUJHE IS MAHINE ME IS DIN EVERST CHADNA HAI USKE LIYE MUJHE HAR DIN ITNI MEHNAT KARNI HI– YA ITNA ROZ SIKHNA HAI-5 MAHINE ME PHYSICS KI TAIYARI KARNI HAI– JAB TAK AAP YE NAHI KAROGE VO GOAL NAHI HAI,, SIRF EK SAPNA HAI,

THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESSFUL AND FAILURE– AGAR HUM KISI SUCCESSFUL INSAAN SE POOCHE — WHAT IS YOUR GOLAS– HE CAN EASILY TELL– MERE 2 MAHINE K GOALS YE HAI– 1 SAAL K GOALS YE HAI–OR

KIS FAILURE SE POOCHENGE TO– BOLEGA– HUM TO KUCH BHI KAR LENGE YAAR- KISMAT JAHA LE JARI HAI– SAB SAI HAI–JO HOGA DEKHA JAYEGA– AISE INSAANO SE DOOR RAHO,,

2ND IS  THE REASON BEHIND THE GOAL SETTING

MAINE DEKHA HAI STUDENTS BOLTE HAI,, KARNA HAI MUJHE IIT , IIM KARNA HAI,, YA IS COLLEGE ME JANA HAI– KYU JANA HAI– PAPA KEHRE THE–YAAR MERE SAARE FRIENDS WAHI HAI TO MAIN BHI JARI HU–OR KARU BHI KYA– KUCH SAMAJH NI AARA HAI — CHALO YEI KAR LETE HAI- YE EASY LAGRA HAI,,,   YE SAB BAKWAAS REASONS HAI–KYUKI YE REASONS AAPKO QUIT KARWA DEGA KYUKI MUMMA YA PAPA YA DOSTO K KEHNE PE LAMBI MEHNAT NAHI HOTI– LAMBI MEHNAT TABHI  HOTI H JAB HUM KOI KAAM BINA THAKE BINA RUKE BINA PAISO K KAR SAKTE HO-VO HAMARA JUNOON HOTA HAI-OR MAIN TO ISI KI WAJAH SE JEE RAHA HU– ROJ UTHTA HI ISI WAJAH SE HU K EK DIN BADA  SINGER BNAN JAU–THAT IS THE  REASON– IT IS JUST MENTAL IMPRESSION- JUST THIS ATTITUDE — OR AAP DEKHOGE AAP KIS TARAH AUKAT PAAR KARTE HO

3) FINDING THE GROUP– SANGAT

BADE BUZURG YA PARENTS HAMESHA BOLTE HAI– BETA ACHCHI SANGAT ME  RAHA KARO– YE BAAT BILKUL SACH HAI– AGAR POORI CLASS FACEBOOK CHALANE ME BUSY HAI OR AAP AKELE IIT KI TAIYAARI KAR RAHE HO- YA GHAR ME SIRF AAP DIETING PE HO OR BAAKI SAB PAKODE KHA RAHE HAI– TO NAHI HONE WALA–IF U WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL — SANGAT MATTERS–DOCTOR BANNA HAI- DOCTORS SE DOSTI KRLO–JO BANNA HAI–USI KA GROUP BANA LO–

4) BREAKING THE PLAN

AAPKO PATA HAI — AGAR AAPKO POORI BOOK ACHCHE SE YAAD KARNI HAI ,, EXAM ME ACHCHE MARKS LANE HAI THEN YOU HAVE TO BREAK THE PLAN – — MTLB KI AGAR AAPKE BOOK ME 24 CHAPTERS HAI OR AAPKE PASS 8 MAHINE HAI ,, TO HAR MAHINE 3 CHAPTERS,, HAR HAFTE ITNE ,, HAR DIN ITNE GHANNTE MUJHE PADHAI KARNI HAI– IS JAGAH AAP DHAKKAR MAAR MOTIVATION LAGA SAKTE HO– ISI TARIKE SE SAARE GOALS BANAO

5) DONT QUIT

AB  LAMBI MEHNAT HAI– DISTRACTION BAHUT AATE HAI  ,,KISI COUSIN KI–MAMA KI — KISI KI SHADI PARTY–SCHOOL FUNCTIONS YA KUCH BHI AA GYA — EK DIN KA PLAN CHOOT GYA– KICHAD ME GIR GAYE– YAHA PAR MENTALLY STRONG HONA PADEGA– QUIT NAHI KARNA HAI– KOI BAAT NAHI 5 DIN BARBAAD HO GAYE– MAIN ITNE DINO ME ITNE GHANTE EXTRA PADHKE ISKO COVER KAR LUNGA– QUIT NAHI KARNA– BILKUL BHI

6) HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND YOUR PLANS

HAVE FAITH IN SOMETHING YOU BELIEVE,,GOD ,, YOUR GUTS,, WHATEVER ,,LAMBI MEHNAT ME SABKE DIMAG ME ANXIETY AATI NAHI– MAIN KAR TO RAHA HU — PATA NI HOGA NI HOGA– YE SOCHNA HAI K MAIN EK LAMBE SAFAR PAR HU–YA POSITIVE WAY KI TARAF HU– HAR ROZ ITNI MEHNAT KAR RAHA HU- ISKA POSITIVE RESULT HI MILEGA..

DUNIYA ME LAKHO  KARODO LOG AATE HAI-UNKO UNKE RELATIVES K ALAVA KOI NAI JANTA – LIFE JEETE HAI MARTE HAI– BINA KUCH BADA KARE CHALE JATE HAI,, MAIN AISA NAHI BANNA CHAHATA,, ROZ SUBAH UTHKE YE SOCHO YAAR MAIN KYU AAYA HU IS DUNIYA ME,, JIS KAM K LIYE AAYA HU ,, PEHLE VO KARUGA YA JO MERA PASSION HAI SAB SE PEHLE USKE LIYE KUCH KARUNGA— BAAD ME ENJOY KARUNGA,, MUJHE AISE NAI MARNA

SSS

I THINK THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE KOI KAR JAT HAI OR KOI NAHI– FIR HUM 10 SAAL BAAD USE DEKH K BOLTE HAI-YE TO MAIN B KAR SAKTA HU-BSS MUJHE MOKA NI ,MILTA- YAAR ISNE YE KAISE KIYA– ISME KYA GREAT BAAT THI– USME KOI GREAT BAAT NAHI THI– BSS JIS TIME HUM APNA TIME PASS KARNE K LIYE SOCIAL MEDIA ME ,, YA CRICKET KHELKE YAA FALTU ME IDHAR UDHAR GHOOM K,,TIME WASTE KAR RAHE HOTE HAI NA,, US TIME VO APNE GOAL ACHIEVE KARNE K LIYE MEHNAT KAR RAHA HOTA HAI,,,,,

UNDER PROMISE AND OVER DELIVER- HAMESHA JO LOG AAPSE EXPECT KARTE HAI USSE KUCH JYADA DEKE JAO-TAAKI LOG AAPKO ALAG SAMAJHE

REINVENT-BAAR BAAR APNE AAP KO BADAL KE EK NAYA INSAAN BAN JAO– TAAKI LOG AAPSE SIKHNA CHAHE–

PASSION-JO PASSIONATE HAI ,,JISME JUNOON HAI,, VO SABKO DIKHTA HAI,,JISKI WAJAH SE SAB ATTRACT HOTE HAI,,

PATIENCE-AAJ KAL SAB KAAM JALDI HONE LAG GAYE HAI,,WEBSITES JALDI KAAM KRNE LAG GAYI HAI, SAARE KAAM GHAR SE HI HO JATE HAI,,, SYD JISKI WAJAH SE LOGO NE PATIENCE KHO DIYA HAI– APNA NAAM REPUTATION,, CAREER,,BANANE ME 10 20 SAAL LAG JATE HAI

PARTNERSHIPS-AAP BAAKI LOGO KI HELP KARENGE TO VO BHI AAPKI HELP KARENGE,, SO ITS IMPORTANT

HUMILITY-HUMILITY HON BHUT JARURI HAI, JAB AAPKO SUCCESS MIL JAYE TO PAIR ZAMEEN PAR HONA ZARURI HAI– JAB SUCCESS AATI HAI TO DIMAG ME JATI HAI– JISSE ARROGANCE AATI HAI– ARROGANCE SUCCESS KA SPEED BREAKER HAI- GROWTH BND HO JATI HAI– JO HUMBLE HOTA HAI USKI SUCCESS BADHTI JATI H

 

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